21 and a baby on the way. Can you believe it? I had a good time on his birthday had dinner and visited the next day. I'm going to put him to work with me cleaning empty places. I think he will do fine. I don't know how to help him or were to go to get him some help. He seems to be mellowing out some but still has his issues. I miss you so much. OH OH OH I almost have enough change saved up to get some of your ashes from Debbie to turn you into a diamond. I love you.